I'm in to feeder fantasies. I start date women of lager weight, but then they work to lose it. That is not so uncommon but what is, is that they always seem successful. I have friends who complain about their girl friends gaining weight from being in a relationship. I do find my self jealous of them, because more often then not Ive dated a girl and she looses weight, never gains, and I mean I'm happy for her good for her, but when it happens 4 times in a row, you have to say come on. I'm honest about my preference, and women act like they aprisiate it until they dont want you too. and I feel that a bit silly. I wish thing were easier in many regards.