My goal of plumping my boyfriend up, that is.
If you read my previous posts, you'll see that even though he hadn't explicitly agreed to gain weight, he had gained and we had a mutual affection for eachother's bellies and most of our social activities revolve around food.
He has seen his family over Xmas, and they have exclaimed with horror that he's gained a lot of weight, and that has made him really insecure about everything, and to cut a long story short he has said he is gonna lose every pound he put on. It's not like he's even huge, he's 6 ft 5 and wears 38 pants that are baggy. I have told him "skinny is NOT hot" but he's dead set on it, saying he's not happy with himself.
I feel absolutely gutted! I was telling the truth when I said to him that I didn't like skinny guys at all, and I kind of feel like "what a waste" of the last 6 months cos he was starting to get such a hot belly. I can't force him to be something he doesn't want to be though
I'm so sad. Don't really know what to do.
If you read my previous posts, you'll see that even though he hadn't explicitly agreed to gain weight, he had gained and we had a mutual affection for eachother's bellies and most of our social activities revolve around food.
He has seen his family over Xmas, and they have exclaimed with horror that he's gained a lot of weight, and that has made him really insecure about everything, and to cut a long story short he has said he is gonna lose every pound he put on. It's not like he's even huge, he's 6 ft 5 and wears 38 pants that are baggy. I have told him "skinny is NOT hot" but he's dead set on it, saying he's not happy with himself.
I feel absolutely gutted! I was telling the truth when I said to him that I didn't like skinny guys at all, and I kind of feel like "what a waste" of the last 6 months cos he was starting to get such a hot belly. I can't force him to be something he doesn't want to be though
I'm so sad. Don't really know what to do.
