Tad
Dimensions' loiterer
Please excuse me being goofy in the title, what I'm really wondering is how people here (BHM and FFA) feel about big guys 'keeping up' with women in general activities.
(There is a specefic thing I remember from growing up that sparks this question: Across the street was a family where both parents were very fat, I'm sure well over 300 pounds. At one point the mother lost a quite noticeable amount of weight....I was seeing this through ten year old eyes so I don't know how much, but let's say she went from SSBBW to BBW. And she took over cutting the lawn and using the snowblower to clear the driveway, chores that had clearly been a real struggle for her husband. The rumor around the neighborhood was that she had lost the weight so she could take over those chores.)
I'm thinking that this could be a natural area for conflicted feelings. FFA like that their guys are big. Some BHM like being big. At the same time most FFA and BHM like having a guy be physically strong and capable. But that weight is going to slow guys down and make certain things harder, and in some cases it will mean that they can't do as much as their partner in some way.
BHM and FFA, I'm curious about how you feel about situations where the guy can't do as much as his partner. Be it not walk as quickly, or not walk for as far, or have trouble with stairs, or in a more extreme case like the example I witnessed as a kid, cutting the lawn.
(There is a specefic thing I remember from growing up that sparks this question: Across the street was a family where both parents were very fat, I'm sure well over 300 pounds. At one point the mother lost a quite noticeable amount of weight....I was seeing this through ten year old eyes so I don't know how much, but let's say she went from SSBBW to BBW. And she took over cutting the lawn and using the snowblower to clear the driveway, chores that had clearly been a real struggle for her husband. The rumor around the neighborhood was that she had lost the weight so she could take over those chores.)
I'm thinking that this could be a natural area for conflicted feelings. FFA like that their guys are big. Some BHM like being big. At the same time most FFA and BHM like having a guy be physically strong and capable. But that weight is going to slow guys down and make certain things harder, and in some cases it will mean that they can't do as much as their partner in some way.
BHM and FFA, I'm curious about how you feel about situations where the guy can't do as much as his partner. Be it not walk as quickly, or not walk for as far, or have trouble with stairs, or in a more extreme case like the example I witnessed as a kid, cutting the lawn.
