So, I may have just allowed myself to get talked into a date on Friday night.
Issues:
In Boston, going to a movie, younger guy who has never dated a FAT girl before.
Now, I have no particular issues with any of those things other than the normal "I have to have a place to park that's relatively close, I hope the theater seat arms go up or I'm going to be in some amount of pain, and I hope that these little things that I have to do don't freak him out"
I don't CARE if they do, they're my things, they're part of how I deal with this world I don't really fit into, but it's always hard indoctrinating a newbie to all this stuff that is second nature to me, my fat friends, and their FA boyfriends.
I'm going to call the theater and ask about the arm rests, that's step one. Probably going to have to play the rest by ear and see how it goes.
Nothing like going into a first date, which always sucks, with extra anxiety.
(and no big expectations here, I'm going because I promised myself I was going to be more open to just giving people shots... so that's all I'm doing)
Issues:
In Boston, going to a movie, younger guy who has never dated a FAT girl before.
Now, I have no particular issues with any of those things other than the normal "I have to have a place to park that's relatively close, I hope the theater seat arms go up or I'm going to be in some amount of pain, and I hope that these little things that I have to do don't freak him out"
I don't CARE if they do, they're my things, they're part of how I deal with this world I don't really fit into, but it's always hard indoctrinating a newbie to all this stuff that is second nature to me, my fat friends, and their FA boyfriends.
I'm going to call the theater and ask about the arm rests, that's step one. Probably going to have to play the rest by ear and see how it goes.
Nothing like going into a first date, which always sucks, with extra anxiety.
(and no big expectations here, I'm going because I promised myself I was going to be more open to just giving people shots... so that's all I'm doing)
