hi everyone, im new to the forum, ive browsed through it and stuff out of interest, and thought id register, this seems like the ideal forum to discuss my stuff, seems like theres lots of nice people on here etc, with time for other peoples problems... i will contribute plenty, just thought id start off with myself. 
firstly, im male, and im 20 years old, im not really fat, although i used to be, i lost a lot of weight and although im by no means really attractive, i do keep reasonably fit and stuff. thats just me, im not really the issue anyway.
the issue is (dum dum dum) that im very attracted to fat girls. as well as thin girls/ normal girls, i find attraction in many places. but most of all fat/ overweight/ chubby girls. not that im a guy that goes around sleeping with lots of girls anyway, i dont mean to make it sound like ive got the pick of any sort of girl i choose or anything.
and i find it pretty hard, because i dont much like the idea of actually going out with a fat girl. theres such a stigma, i wouldnt like to be seen with a fat girl etc, i dont think they could be properley involved in my lifestyle, it wouldnt work. i like seeing big girls when i get the chance, i have nearly had relationships with 2. but i cant make that transition at all, and i was wondering how you all deal with it? if you are in a relationship with a bbw, how does that effect your friendships, your lifestyle, your self image, and the way other people see you? and if you are a bbw, can you understand this or do you just think im shallow? have you encountered a lot of people with my (slightly rubbish) attitude?
now i know this might have caused some offence, and ill probably get a lot of people calling me shallow and unconfident etc, and you might be right. it is mostly down to self-image, or more precisely, the way others see me. bear in mind i am young, im not really fat, i live the roughly 'cool' lifestyle of a struggling musician, and my friends all have 'attractive' skinny girlfriends. i hope you can see how its not that easy, that itd be pretty hard for me to incorporate the kind of people i find attractive into my image and lifestyle, which is sadly, unfortunately, quite important to me.
on a more light hearted note, some of the ladies on the forum are very beautiful, so hello from another casual fat admirer to talk to and remind you of your attractiveness...
sam
firstly, im male, and im 20 years old, im not really fat, although i used to be, i lost a lot of weight and although im by no means really attractive, i do keep reasonably fit and stuff. thats just me, im not really the issue anyway.
the issue is (dum dum dum) that im very attracted to fat girls. as well as thin girls/ normal girls, i find attraction in many places. but most of all fat/ overweight/ chubby girls. not that im a guy that goes around sleeping with lots of girls anyway, i dont mean to make it sound like ive got the pick of any sort of girl i choose or anything.
and i find it pretty hard, because i dont much like the idea of actually going out with a fat girl. theres such a stigma, i wouldnt like to be seen with a fat girl etc, i dont think they could be properley involved in my lifestyle, it wouldnt work. i like seeing big girls when i get the chance, i have nearly had relationships with 2. but i cant make that transition at all, and i was wondering how you all deal with it? if you are in a relationship with a bbw, how does that effect your friendships, your lifestyle, your self image, and the way other people see you? and if you are a bbw, can you understand this or do you just think im shallow? have you encountered a lot of people with my (slightly rubbish) attitude?
now i know this might have caused some offence, and ill probably get a lot of people calling me shallow and unconfident etc, and you might be right. it is mostly down to self-image, or more precisely, the way others see me. bear in mind i am young, im not really fat, i live the roughly 'cool' lifestyle of a struggling musician, and my friends all have 'attractive' skinny girlfriends. i hope you can see how its not that easy, that itd be pretty hard for me to incorporate the kind of people i find attractive into my image and lifestyle, which is sadly, unfortunately, quite important to me.
on a more light hearted note, some of the ladies on the forum are very beautiful, so hello from another casual fat admirer to talk to and remind you of your attractiveness...
sam
