eightyseven
Ridiculous.
I've never been one to really VOLUNTARILY open up about my preference for big girls, but for some reason I chose my 200-person lecture on sex/dating/relationships to kind of say something. My professor asked us to come up with "sexual issues" for each gender such as (for males) performance, penis size, ability to make the woman orgasm, and (for females) double standards, protection, and a whole list of others.
I decided to bring up the fact/opinion that it's a MUCH bigger deal socially for males about who your sexual partner is. I feel like that's true... especially when it comes to the female body... women are ALWAYS more scrutinized for how they look- it's a status symbol almost. Simultaneously, it's a status symbol for guys to see who they're with... sexually and as far as friendships are concerned. Too often I hear, "Thanks dude for making sure I didn't hook up with that whale/fat chick when I was shitfaced."
My professor asked me to elaborate... and though I was nervous, I went on to explain how there are so many people out there and so many people to be attracted to... but guys as a whole have just one general standard for beauty that anything not up to that standard is unacceptable. It keeps many guys from being who they are, and makes those who choose to be attracted to who they want to be feel like shit. I almost felt like I was insinuating that I liked those girls who were not "socially-accepted beautiful." And even if I didn't, it was liberating nonetheless!
I decided to bring up the fact/opinion that it's a MUCH bigger deal socially for males about who your sexual partner is. I feel like that's true... especially when it comes to the female body... women are ALWAYS more scrutinized for how they look- it's a status symbol almost. Simultaneously, it's a status symbol for guys to see who they're with... sexually and as far as friendships are concerned. Too often I hear, "Thanks dude for making sure I didn't hook up with that whale/fat chick when I was shitfaced."
My professor asked me to elaborate... and though I was nervous, I went on to explain how there are so many people out there and so many people to be attracted to... but guys as a whole have just one general standard for beauty that anything not up to that standard is unacceptable. It keeps many guys from being who they are, and makes those who choose to be attracted to who they want to be feel like shit. I almost felt like I was insinuating that I liked those girls who were not "socially-accepted beautiful." And even if I didn't, it was liberating nonetheless!
