Hey ladies n gents...I have a dilema.
I've been with my man for nearly three years. I love him to pieces but over the past year we have drifted apart, in large part due to weight issues.
When we met he was about 195, and pretty slim (hes brushing six feet). He's about 225 now, and gorgeous as hell. He has known about my...preferences petty much from the first day.
He's got large, stunning green/brown eyes, thick brown hair and a muscular frame. He's also funny and sweet.
So what's the problem? He's developed some sort of complex. He can barely stand to be touched and he constantly feels self conscious. Nothing I do seems to help - not telling him how sexy he is, showing him how sexy he is. I've even been supportive and tried to help him loose weight.
He's not even fat - he's barely chubby, and only in the tum. He only has a tiny pot belly that doesn't sag over or anything (though i've fantasized about that...)
I've stopped touching him pretty much all the time, and because I feel so nervous about touching him I basically have to get myself revved up and trip him into making love.
I'm a very outgoing, affectionate girl and this is killing me. Its gotten to the point I just want some BHM friends I can talk to/poke n snuggle. (Not in a sexual way just as friends!)
Girls - any of your guys ever done this to you?
Gents - any advice on what your girls have done to you to fix this? Also any young gents who want to have an FFA friend?
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I've been with my man for nearly three years. I love him to pieces but over the past year we have drifted apart, in large part due to weight issues.
When we met he was about 195, and pretty slim (hes brushing six feet). He's about 225 now, and gorgeous as hell. He has known about my...preferences petty much from the first day.
He's got large, stunning green/brown eyes, thick brown hair and a muscular frame. He's also funny and sweet.
So what's the problem? He's developed some sort of complex. He can barely stand to be touched and he constantly feels self conscious. Nothing I do seems to help - not telling him how sexy he is, showing him how sexy he is. I've even been supportive and tried to help him loose weight.
He's not even fat - he's barely chubby, and only in the tum. He only has a tiny pot belly that doesn't sag over or anything (though i've fantasized about that...)
I've stopped touching him pretty much all the time, and because I feel so nervous about touching him I basically have to get myself revved up and trip him into making love.
I'm a very outgoing, affectionate girl and this is killing me. Its gotten to the point I just want some BHM friends I can talk to/poke n snuggle. (Not in a sexual way just as friends!)
Girls - any of your guys ever done this to you?
Gents - any advice on what your girls have done to you to fix this? Also any young gents who want to have an FFA friend?
VV_;V
