BLUEeyedBanshee
Ministry of Truth
Alrighty. First off let me say, I absolutely love my guy. I really really really do. Not only do I find him incredibly physically attractive. He has a great sense of humor, we have fun when we're together, he's supportive, he's everything I could ever ask for.
However, there is one thing that I just don't get. He has confidence oozing out of his ears, but when I tell him he looks hot. Or that I can't believe how sexy he looked in something, he gets all goofy. Initially it was just joking saying I got dropped on my head or something as a kid. But just last night it turned to a serious conversation.
He says he's not used to someone being attracted to him for physical reasons. He says that it's his personality that wins them over.
I told him that initially what drew me to him was the physical. And when I saw what the whole package was, the humor, the support, the caring, I couldn't help but love him totally and completely. I mean even everyday things like going shopping, sitting around watching tv. I love all of it with him.
I'm not saying that he's perfect, because neither am I, but he's as perfect as I could ever hope for.
Ok, now what I want to know is. Does it make any of you guys when someone who's attracted to you is very open about it? I don't mean just on here, but in person.
My adult life I've been very open about the guys I find attractive. My friends, when I was single, would point out guys that were my type all the time. And yes I would approach them. Talk and flirt and have fun. I tell him all the time just how sexy I find him and I can't keep my hands off him when we're together. (The hands on thing doesn't seem to be the problem, it's the verbal that makes him sort of uncomfortable.)
Ok I'm rambling on here. I just want to know. Do you guys find verbal compliments make you uncomfortable?
However, there is one thing that I just don't get. He has confidence oozing out of his ears, but when I tell him he looks hot. Or that I can't believe how sexy he looked in something, he gets all goofy. Initially it was just joking saying I got dropped on my head or something as a kid. But just last night it turned to a serious conversation.
He says he's not used to someone being attracted to him for physical reasons. He says that it's his personality that wins them over.
I told him that initially what drew me to him was the physical. And when I saw what the whole package was, the humor, the support, the caring, I couldn't help but love him totally and completely. I mean even everyday things like going shopping, sitting around watching tv. I love all of it with him.
I'm not saying that he's perfect, because neither am I, but he's as perfect as I could ever hope for.
Ok, now what I want to know is. Does it make any of you guys when someone who's attracted to you is very open about it? I don't mean just on here, but in person.
My adult life I've been very open about the guys I find attractive. My friends, when I was single, would point out guys that were my type all the time. And yes I would approach them. Talk and flirt and have fun. I tell him all the time just how sexy I find him and I can't keep my hands off him when we're together. (The hands on thing doesn't seem to be the problem, it's the verbal that makes him sort of uncomfortable.)
Ok I'm rambling on here. I just want to know. Do you guys find verbal compliments make you uncomfortable?
