FatAcquiescence
New Member
Hello, I am new to this site. I was recently referred by a member I met at Fat Girl Speaks in Portland. I have always been very interested in sexuality (well, and sex in general) and this community has made me reflect on a few things I have never really examined before.
I am very pro-body image, and have been vocal about fat acceptance for a while now. I have always been the first fat girl that my past sex partners have been with. I dont have a problem with this, I actually enjoy the fact that I am opening them up to a whole new wonderful world of fatness
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I have had wonderful relationships with men and women who respect and love my body. I am extremely comfortable and confident with my body, and have never had anyone complain (nor would I tolerate such complaints). However, I know that if you take me out of the immediate equation, and they were given the choice, they would all almost certainly select a thin body over a fat body.
I have never really given that fact much thought before, but now that I am realizing there are people out there who would actually PREFER my fat body. I am wondering if there is a deeper level of intensity that I could be missing out on. Even though the strongest attractions I experience go beyond physical appearance (I am a sucker for all things brainy and nerdworthy), I cant help but think there is something I am missing. Does anyone have any idea about what I am talking about? Have you noticed a difference if you have experienced sex with a FA/etc versus someone who subscribes to the media-generated beauty norms? I hope this makes sense!
And since I am new and blabbering on with questions, here are some pictures of me:
I am very pro-body image, and have been vocal about fat acceptance for a while now. I have always been the first fat girl that my past sex partners have been with. I dont have a problem with this, I actually enjoy the fact that I am opening them up to a whole new wonderful world of fatness
. I have had wonderful relationships with men and women who respect and love my body. I am extremely comfortable and confident with my body, and have never had anyone complain (nor would I tolerate such complaints). However, I know that if you take me out of the immediate equation, and they were given the choice, they would all almost certainly select a thin body over a fat body.
I have never really given that fact much thought before, but now that I am realizing there are people out there who would actually PREFER my fat body. I am wondering if there is a deeper level of intensity that I could be missing out on. Even though the strongest attractions I experience go beyond physical appearance (I am a sucker for all things brainy and nerdworthy), I cant help but think there is something I am missing. Does anyone have any idea about what I am talking about? Have you noticed a difference if you have experienced sex with a FA/etc versus someone who subscribes to the media-generated beauty norms? I hope this makes sense!
And since I am new and blabbering on with questions, here are some pictures of me:
