Do you ever feel you don't do enough for the fat community. I've been visiting here regularly for a long time now, and still don't think I do enough to promote fat pride. I've only really gained 60 pounds since I really started going at it. I was 180 back when I was 20 now I'm 240. I want to be somewhere between 280 and 320. And the only thing really holding me back is a bit of nervousness...but I'm getting over them. I'm really pushing for 260 by Feb of next year. Is 20 pounds in 3 months a lot? I mean super noticeable? And how have you contributed or not to the fat community movement? Have you gotten fatter, dated a fat person etc...?