Musicman560
Active Member
Not really sure where to begin but I should probably start off by saying that i'm a closet FA and the problem I have is that I feel like everyone will just come down hard on me if I reveal my preference. I already know that my parents do not like my preference in women. My first gf was around 300lbs and when I showed them a picture of her to my parents all they could talk about was her weight, which I obviously didnt enjoy so after that I tried to avoid the topic. Recently I just met this girl that im interested in dating, but she is way bigger than my previous gf which I like but at the same time, I can't stop imagining what friends and family would say if they ever meet her. So im very connflicted right now over what to do. I want to go out with her but at the same time I don't want her to get hurt because of my friends and family. And I also don't want to put my preference out there cause I know there viewpoints on me will change and who knows what will happen cause of that. So, im just looking for some advice on this.
