surrealeye
Member
Well here is our story: We are a 30-ish black couple married for about 6 years, both professional workers. I (BHM) have had a closet fetish for large breasted, round bottomed white women and my wife (BBW) has a voyeur fetish. Here is the kicker; I (BHM) have been working my way out of a sexual shell since our marriage. Now dont get me wrong I am not a sexually clueless individual and am very kinky, I just had trouble expressing these fetishes/desires. Notice I said, Had. After a very lengthy sexual discussion with my wife, mostly with me opening up and telling her, what she already knew. (LOL) And her telling me that she would love to watch me fuck one of the women I have been lusting for and possibly join in for a 3some. I turned to my best friend for help who told me to try you guys for ideas on how to act on this fetish and bring into reality.
So I put the question to you guys: What do I do to find this woman, be she a BBW or a FFA?
I know this site is not the place to meet people but it is a form and I am hoping you guys can help point me in the right direction. I know from experience that this can lead to the destruction of a marriage. I was married before and my wife then decided that she wanted to have a 3some and I watch her with another woman and then join in. What guy, in his right mind would turn this down; I could not foresee a problem. The problem was the communication between her and me. See leaped off on her own and never told me what was going on. She met with people or women with out me or I never met them. Later I found that the individuals that she was meeting with were not only women but men as well. She had found a new way to cheat and I was to dumb to figure it out until it was too late and the marriage was over. Hence the sexual shell I put myself in to protect myself.
Now I am with a trusting woman that cares for me and I her. Yada yada , we want to explore. We are mature adults who know our bodies and know our sexual tastes and we want to explore. Can anyone tell us what we need to do or what site we need to go to and find this woman.
So I put the question to you guys: What do I do to find this woman, be she a BBW or a FFA?
I know this site is not the place to meet people but it is a form and I am hoping you guys can help point me in the right direction. I know from experience that this can lead to the destruction of a marriage. I was married before and my wife then decided that she wanted to have a 3some and I watch her with another woman and then join in. What guy, in his right mind would turn this down; I could not foresee a problem. The problem was the communication between her and me. See leaped off on her own and never told me what was going on. She met with people or women with out me or I never met them. Later I found that the individuals that she was meeting with were not only women but men as well. She had found a new way to cheat and I was to dumb to figure it out until it was too late and the marriage was over. Hence the sexual shell I put myself in to protect myself.
Now I am with a trusting woman that cares for me and I her. Yada yada , we want to explore. We are mature adults who know our bodies and know our sexual tastes and we want to explore. Can anyone tell us what we need to do or what site we need to go to and find this woman.
