Sandie_Zitkus
In Rememberance
I had a great session with my therapist yesterday and I am sooooooooooo over trying to help needy people!
I'M DONE!
Trying to *fix* people
TRying to *help* the helpless
Trying to make up for something lacking in someone elses life.
Trying to fix past wrongs in others lives
Giving up myself for what someone else wants or needs.
Putting anyone elses needs ahead of mine!
I'M DONE!
So in conclusion - IF I meet people who are needy and want someone to *help them* through life, and need an overabundance of encouragement, who want to cry on my shoulder until I can't feel my arm - who want me to carry mine and theirs. I have one thing to say.......
"NO"
This is my Independence Day - anyone else care to join me?????
I'M DONE!
Trying to *fix* people
TRying to *help* the helpless
Trying to make up for something lacking in someone elses life.
Trying to fix past wrongs in others lives
Giving up myself for what someone else wants or needs.
Putting anyone elses needs ahead of mine!
I'M DONE!
So in conclusion - IF I meet people who are needy and want someone to *help them* through life, and need an overabundance of encouragement, who want to cry on my shoulder until I can't feel my arm - who want me to carry mine and theirs. I have one thing to say.......
"NO"
This is my Independence Day - anyone else care to join me?????