Hello everyone! I am hoping that some of the great gals here can answer a question that I have been pondering.
Here is some background. I am an SSBBW happily married to an FA. My parents were big people and so are most of my siblings. The question pertains to my niece.
My niece is close to 20 y.o.. She has had different boyfriends since she was 13 or so. They have ALL been big guys. She has dated at least six different big boys. In fact, twice her friends tried to fix her up with two different guys that happened to be average size. She immediately rejected them, finding a personality flaw to pin it on. She has openly stated that she wants to be with a big man because they make her feel safe.
My husband and I are quite happy with her choice since we both think that all chubsters, male and female, should get lots of loving. Everyone in the family is totally cool with it as well.
Here is the question - I have never actually had a conversation with her about her FFAness, so to speak. She is now old enough where I would feel comfortable having a conversation with her about "turn-ons". I want to ask your opinion if I should even have the conversation. My purpose would be like, good for you, and did you know that there are other girls that actually prefer big guys?.
Well what do you all think?, and I am not limiting responses to the ladies only, of course. Thanks!
Here is some background. I am an SSBBW happily married to an FA. My parents were big people and so are most of my siblings. The question pertains to my niece.
My niece is close to 20 y.o.. She has had different boyfriends since she was 13 or so. They have ALL been big guys. She has dated at least six different big boys. In fact, twice her friends tried to fix her up with two different guys that happened to be average size. She immediately rejected them, finding a personality flaw to pin it on. She has openly stated that she wants to be with a big man because they make her feel safe.
My husband and I are quite happy with her choice since we both think that all chubsters, male and female, should get lots of loving. Everyone in the family is totally cool with it as well.
Here is the question - I have never actually had a conversation with her about her FFAness, so to speak. She is now old enough where I would feel comfortable having a conversation with her about "turn-ons". I want to ask your opinion if I should even have the conversation. My purpose would be like, good for you, and did you know that there are other girls that actually prefer big guys?.
Well what do you all think?, and I am not limiting responses to the ladies only, of course. Thanks!
