SexyCanadian
Active Member
I had begun a relationship about 10 months ago that has now developed into a long distance relationship so my boyfriend and I are currently separated. Well I was about 300lbs when we first met and in the time weve been together Ive lost 20lbs not really intentionally Ive just been more active Ive been very happy and in love so I havent been emotionally eating. Well after I took a holiday I sent him a bunch of pictures and he said i was a bit upset you look like you are loosing a bit weight you know i love u big. Our relationship is really good and healthy so its not that he was really upset so to speak. Well I was a little flabbergasted, although I knew and know he loves me in my entirety which of course includes my body I had no idea that my weight was something he was attracted too. It was at this point I began seeking out resources and getting my education on FAs and BBW and size acceptance. I have never been particularly happy with my weight and to be honest its always made me self conscious, in my eyes I thought he would be happy with me for loosing weight. So this is really my first relationship with a FA or at least knowingly in a relationship with a FA so this is a whole new perspective for me and I am left with a couple questions for you helpful FAs and I hope they're not too difficult for you to answer.
I guess what I am asking is why was I more attractive to him when I was heavier?
What is it about a woman being heavier that makes her that much more attracive to you?
Why is it that bigger is better?
I guess what I am asking is why was I more attractive to him when I was heavier?
What is it about a woman being heavier that makes her that much more attracive to you?
Why is it that bigger is better?
