I am sick and tired of random IM's from WannaBes, as a self labeled *FAT ADMIRER OF BHM*. I can only imagine what kind of attention others have on here. I guess I get frustrated that anyone can read the posts on this board, and find my contact information, as I HAVE IT POSTED :doh:
What am I really griping about? SO many men contact me for encouragement from AFAR ONLY, neglecting the plain and simple fact I am human and have lots of feelings, and might just get attached. Men come and go via IM online, and it can be hurtful.
I know I am not alone here, and open myself up to this. Two different men that *SAY* they want to gain heavily have contacted me this week...that dissappear for weeks at a time, and then just pop up as if we chatted yesterday. Perhaps it is the nature of the net....dunno..just felt like sharing my woe
What am I really griping about? SO many men contact me for encouragement from AFAR ONLY, neglecting the plain and simple fact I am human and have lots of feelings, and might just get attached. Men come and go via IM online, and it can be hurtful.
I know I am not alone here, and open myself up to this. Two different men that *SAY* they want to gain heavily have contacted me this week...that dissappear for weeks at a time, and then just pop up as if we chatted yesterday. Perhaps it is the nature of the net....dunno..just felt like sharing my woe
