In Boteroesque Babe's thread about coming out, a poster referred to a politician's wife as a "reluctant BBW." As if this was a mark against her somehow. Is she not a "real" BBW then? Does a fat woman have to be gung-ho about being fat to represent? Is it a choice between being a cheerleader-for-fat woman in our camp versus a reluctant fat woman who hangs on to hope of an inclusion into the normal-sized person's camp?
I'm not sure if I've said what I mean here clearly (surprise surprise
) but I didn't want to hijack BoBabe's thread, and I want to know what all of you good people think.
I'm not sure if I've said what I mean here clearly (surprise surprise
) but I didn't want to hijack BoBabe's thread, and I want to know what all of you good people think. 
