BigWheels
It's OK, I bite back
I find myself in an odd position and want to see if anyone else has encountered it.
I've got a "friend" (using that term lightly atm) who has told me that just because they're fat (and growing), and I'm trying to take a few pounds off for medical reasons that they just don't think we should be hanging out anymore.
I've made no comments about her weight, and it seems like since I put more veggies in the fridge she isn't as fast to grab a bite to eat when she visits. But she's always snacking when she comes over (usually on my food). We are platonic so it's not FWB or anything.
I'm thinking just cut her loose but damn I don't have many people that visit now.
I don't know what to do. It's tough enough being single & alone, but should I keep snacks on hand for her or do I cut my losses (and someone who actually visits regularly)?
I've got a "friend" (using that term lightly atm) who has told me that just because they're fat (and growing), and I'm trying to take a few pounds off for medical reasons that they just don't think we should be hanging out anymore.
I've made no comments about her weight, and it seems like since I put more veggies in the fridge she isn't as fast to grab a bite to eat when she visits. But she's always snacking when she comes over (usually on my food). We are platonic so it's not FWB or anything.
I'm thinking just cut her loose but damn I don't have many people that visit now.
I don't know what to do. It's tough enough being single & alone, but should I keep snacks on hand for her or do I cut my losses (and someone who actually visits regularly)?
