At 29, I've only ever been with non-FAs. Most of those very long term relationships. I've had the question come up of...well certainly they must have been at least partial FA to have been with you...but I really don't think this is the case.
The other day I spent time with my first actual FA ever. I really wish I would have known about this years ago. Really. I cannot imagine what it would have been like to be with my husband if he had ever ONCE looked at me the way this guy did.
Certainly, I cannot be the only chick to only just be discovering this. Most of the girls here talk about how it is hard to be with a non-FA, I can say certain aspects can be just as scary when all you know is a non-FA. To have been filled with years of doubts and hiding in the dark. Then to have one person who wants the opposite and looks at you and treats you like you are beautiful.
Quite an eye opener for me. I hope these guys realise that this is all very new and somewhat frightening for some of us. I'm all about facing my demons though.
The other day I spent time with my first actual FA ever. I really wish I would have known about this years ago. Really. I cannot imagine what it would have been like to be with my husband if he had ever ONCE looked at me the way this guy did.
Certainly, I cannot be the only chick to only just be discovering this. Most of the girls here talk about how it is hard to be with a non-FA, I can say certain aspects can be just as scary when all you know is a non-FA. To have been filled with years of doubts and hiding in the dark. Then to have one person who wants the opposite and looks at you and treats you like you are beautiful.
Quite an eye opener for me. I hope these guys realise that this is all very new and somewhat frightening for some of us. I'm all about facing my demons though.
