Banjoenelbano
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So I hope this is an appropriate area to have this thread, it seemed to be the best fit
Now I'm an FA and over 5 years ago I met the love of my life, a BBW who weighed in at atleast 300lbs, we got engaged after being together for a year and now we are stuck in a bit of a financial limbo as like many millennials I'm racked with debt and we cant quite yet afford to move in together and actually tie the knot. We are still deeply in love and have a connection that goes beyond physical attraction. Or so I'd like to think.
Recently, rather out of the blue, my fiancè informed me that she needed a change and decided to start the latest iteration of the weight watchers program.
It's important to note that I feel very strongly about bodily autonomy, I'm pro-choice, pro-sex workers, etc. A woman's body is her own business.
So when my fiancè informed me of her intent to lose weight I gave her my support.
I ashamed to admit deep down I was kinda hoping her diet would fail, or that she'd lose interest and give up, but now a month or so into her diet she's already lost over ten pounds!
She's very happy with her progress and I'm happy for her but I am also sad that her sexy double belly and flabby arms are going to go away, I'm not sure what her goal weight is, I've been too afraid to ask.
When it comes down to it the real problem is I feel really guilty about being so selfish that I want her to stay fat even though I know for a fact she's not really into being fat and is concerned about her health (which I'm obviously also concerned about because I want to have a long happy life with her)
So idk, anyone have any advice? Can anyone relate?
Now I'm an FA and over 5 years ago I met the love of my life, a BBW who weighed in at atleast 300lbs, we got engaged after being together for a year and now we are stuck in a bit of a financial limbo as like many millennials I'm racked with debt and we cant quite yet afford to move in together and actually tie the knot. We are still deeply in love and have a connection that goes beyond physical attraction. Or so I'd like to think.
Recently, rather out of the blue, my fiancè informed me that she needed a change and decided to start the latest iteration of the weight watchers program.
It's important to note that I feel very strongly about bodily autonomy, I'm pro-choice, pro-sex workers, etc. A woman's body is her own business.
So when my fiancè informed me of her intent to lose weight I gave her my support.
I ashamed to admit deep down I was kinda hoping her diet would fail, or that she'd lose interest and give up, but now a month or so into her diet she's already lost over ten pounds!
She's very happy with her progress and I'm happy for her but I am also sad that her sexy double belly and flabby arms are going to go away, I'm not sure what her goal weight is, I've been too afraid to ask.
When it comes down to it the real problem is I feel really guilty about being so selfish that I want her to stay fat even though I know for a fact she's not really into being fat and is concerned about her health (which I'm obviously also concerned about because I want to have a long happy life with her)
So idk, anyone have any advice? Can anyone relate?
