It's always been my conjecture that in order for two people to mesh and get along in the long term, they must have at least a somewhat compatible pace of life.
If one partner is a party animal who considers an evening without some sort of social engagement torture whereas the other partner revels in peace and quiet at home, then there will be problems.
If one partner's idea of truly great time is rock climbing and backpacking whereas the other prefers reading and board games, there will be problems.
There are any number of other lifestyles, hobbies and leanings that, when not shared or at least accommodated, can result in eventual alienation and a diminishing of the relationship.
FAs may face two additional issues. The first is that a fat partner may inherently seek a fast pace of life but there may be physical limitations. That can really be frustrating for a fat person and affect the general outlook on life. The second is that the FA may have an inherently fast pace of life that cannot be shared by a fat partner.
So overall, I think it is important for partners to have a similar pace of life where neither feels pressured and/or unfulfilled.
How do you see all this, and has if affected your life?
If one partner is a party animal who considers an evening without some sort of social engagement torture whereas the other partner revels in peace and quiet at home, then there will be problems.
If one partner's idea of truly great time is rock climbing and backpacking whereas the other prefers reading and board games, there will be problems.
There are any number of other lifestyles, hobbies and leanings that, when not shared or at least accommodated, can result in eventual alienation and a diminishing of the relationship.
FAs may face two additional issues. The first is that a fat partner may inherently seek a fast pace of life but there may be physical limitations. That can really be frustrating for a fat person and affect the general outlook on life. The second is that the FA may have an inherently fast pace of life that cannot be shared by a fat partner.
So overall, I think it is important for partners to have a similar pace of life where neither feels pressured and/or unfulfilled.
How do you see all this, and has if affected your life?
