Augustcandy
Hmmmm?
Okay so my mother a lovely woman whom I ADORE has begun to lose weight. She has always been a big woman. from 380 to 330lbs my mom has always shown me beauty comes in all sizes....however in the last three years she has been having severe knee problems. so bad that she is debating on surgery. Her doctor recomened that she loose some weight and so she has and has found that it has helped a bit. already she had lost 40lbs and is close to surpassing me. Although I will always miss my bigmomma (lol) i am glad that she has found a little relief from her knees. Yet with her weight loss i noticed her attitude about food escpecially thick people and food has gone down hill.
for example... my friend, my mom and i went out to eat and my friend and I love to go out and when we do we are VERY serious about getting our grub on.....and my mom had her meal (didn't finish it) and then continued to watch us making odd comments like "i could never eat ALL that" and "wow i am suprised you guys arn't sick". Infact she kept making little comments that focused on my friend who is a few pounds thicker than I.
It seems like every time i turn around she is making these rude comments and i have confronted her and she claims she is "joking" or that perhaps I/(whoeverelse) is eating to much.
My Mum use to LUV to eat. I think she still does but somewhere between the weightloss and the pain of her knees she has lost her mind lol. I am not sure why she is expressing such animosity against thicker people and how they eat.
for example... my friend, my mom and i went out to eat and my friend and I love to go out and when we do we are VERY serious about getting our grub on.....and my mom had her meal (didn't finish it) and then continued to watch us making odd comments like "i could never eat ALL that" and "wow i am suprised you guys arn't sick". Infact she kept making little comments that focused on my friend who is a few pounds thicker than I.
It seems like every time i turn around she is making these rude comments and i have confronted her and she claims she is "joking" or that perhaps I/(whoeverelse) is eating to much.
My Mum use to LUV to eat. I think she still does but somewhere between the weightloss and the pain of her knees she has lost her mind lol. I am not sure why she is expressing such animosity against thicker people and how they eat.
