Should I gain?

[platinumpuzzy]

I am soooooo confused!! I am being approached from everywhere on conflicting advice about gaining some weight. Naturally, family & friends and medical professionals want me to LOSE weight and my fans want me to GAIN it. Society says I am fat, the bbw world calls me a "PLUMPER -not quite fat enough" HELP!!
HERE ARE MY STATS:
Height: 5'6"
Weight: 269

I don't have a problem with my size and don't want to lose and REFUSE to diet and deny myself the food I want to eat. Please feel free to respond with YOUR advice!! Here is a picture of me so you can see my size better!

 

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