squeezablysoft
Well-Known Member
Is anyone here familiar with the "small fats" idea? That ppl in the size 14-18 range who self-identify as fat enjoy a measure of thin privilege that larger ppl don't. Which is undoubtedly true but all this talk of "they aren't REALLY fat" and "they're stealing the thunder from ppl who REALLY ARE fat" kinda makes me feel like the pudgy little misfit who nobody wants and who doesn't fit in anyplace. Like everyone agrees the size my body is rn is not attractive or ok. Some would want it bigger a majority would want it smaller but still the point is I feel like my body is too fat to be attractive by most ppl in American society but not big enough to qualfy me as a true BBW.
