youareneverready
Well-Known Member
I've been wondering lately about the different ways we can, for lack of a better word, interpret the fat we find attractive on a partner. Although finding it a turn-on is an interpretation in itself, I wondered if there was some sort of parallels to a sub/dom dynamic in how we might view a fat partner; whether we see their size as indicative of power and presence or of softness and pliability. Likewise, the idea that someone who has a voracious appetite for food might make us think they have a voracious appetite for sex, but we can view that appetite as a complete loss or lack of self-control or conversely as a purposeful, empowering act of self-indulgence. Are you aware of this polarity? Do you embrace it, or lean one way or the other? Do you see it in an entirely different way? Or am I failing to explain well and appearing to talk bollocks?
