My husband has been bringing home junk food for as long as we've been married. He eats it too, and we gained a lot of weight. (I gained 70 lbs since I got married.) WE have never been very sexual. It;s too bad cause I love him and think he's cute.
One time I lost a whole bunch of weight,b ut he didn't go for me. He was proud when other people admired me, but he never approached.
Now I am gaining, I want to gain. But how much pudge should I mask from him until I say, "well, it's all the junk food you bring in the house." What I really want to say is"You're a feeder/ gainer I'm a gainer. Let's just take it from there."
It's not really the junk food he brings anymore. I'm so mixed up. Like I say, he's a very conventional guy, and I don't think he could admit the truth to himself in words.
Has anyone ever run into this in their relationships?
Luv Weehj
One time I lost a whole bunch of weight,b ut he didn't go for me. He was proud when other people admired me, but he never approached.
Now I am gaining, I want to gain. But how much pudge should I mask from him until I say, "well, it's all the junk food you bring in the house." What I really want to say is"You're a feeder/ gainer I'm a gainer. Let's just take it from there."
It's not really the junk food he brings anymore. I'm so mixed up. Like I say, he's a very conventional guy, and I don't think he could admit the truth to himself in words.
Has anyone ever run into this in their relationships?
Luv Weehj
