Johnny718Bravo
Super Hero
I like big girls. Scratch that, I LOVE them But there's just one small problem. Some just don't know how to take a compliment. The other day, I saw a beautiful big girl on my lunch break. She saw me looking at her. We made eye contact. But when I smiled at her, she gave me the dirtiest look, like I just insulted a member of her family.
This isn't the first time this has happened. So I came to two possible conclusions:
1. I'm just not her type, hey we all have different tastes.
2. She can't take the compliment.
I'm thinking it's conclusion #2. Too often, ignorant people make fun of big girls. "How dare they not be as thin as the skeletons on TV." So I'm thinking she took my smile as an insult. I wish I could have told her that this was not the case.
One of my friends told me once that if you see a beautiful woman, tell her that she's beautiful. Because you may never see her again. If I had done that, worst that could have happened was she could have ignored me. But the best case scenario is I could have struck a conversation and made a new friend.
So fellas, if you see a beautiful big girl, tell her she's beautiful. And ladies, if you see someone smiling at you, take the compliment.
It won't cost you a thing
This isn't the first time this has happened. So I came to two possible conclusions:
1. I'm just not her type, hey we all have different tastes.
2. She can't take the compliment.
I'm thinking it's conclusion #2. Too often, ignorant people make fun of big girls. "How dare they not be as thin as the skeletons on TV." So I'm thinking she took my smile as an insult. I wish I could have told her that this was not the case.
One of my friends told me once that if you see a beautiful woman, tell her that she's beautiful. Because you may never see her again. If I had done that, worst that could have happened was she could have ignored me. But the best case scenario is I could have struck a conversation and made a new friend.
So fellas, if you see a beautiful big girl, tell her she's beautiful. And ladies, if you see someone smiling at you, take the compliment.
It won't cost you a thing