I guess I have to call myself a lurker, but I have interacted with a lot of you in the past through private messages or other forums. The reason I'm posting is that I found the man of my dreams from these communities and I just wanted to say thanks to all of you. I've always been attracted to fat men pretty exclusively and the fetishy stuff appeals to me somewhat, but I never thought I would actually get to have all of that in real life.
I'm 25 years old now, but I have been in and out of these forums for years trying to understand this aspect of my sexuality and how I want it to manifest in real life. Over the past few years, I was looking pretty hard for attractive, fat men that wanted to meet me in person. I did meet a few from here, but nothing worked out for the long term. It depressed me a little because I realized that not only do I have a very small population to choose from, but within that population, I still had lots of requirements besides just physical attraction. And even once I found a good one, how would my friends and family react to me dating a guy 3 times my size? Being a smallish, sporty health professional didn't seem to fit with my sexual preferences. Everything seemed so difficult.
Since then, I've met the best guy ever. We first started chatting online last year around Thanksgiving while I was applying to graduate school. He lived literally on the opposite side of the country from me so it didn't start out too serious, but I knew I would be traveling around the country to interview at different schools so we might have a chance to meet. The most prestigious school that decided to give me an interview was actually only an hour away from where he lived and we chatted every day until I flew there in February. We spent an amazing week together and kept talking every day through texts and phone calls. Out of the 40 applications I sent out, the only program that accepted me was this school (my first choice school and the one closest to him coincidentally). So in July, I moved here.
It's only been 2 months, but I've never been so happy in a relationship before and I still can't believe these websites worked for me. He's not only the hottest guy I know, but the smartest, sweetest, and most fun guy I've ever dated and I'm so proud to be his girlfriend. I don't want to be too sappy, but I know I always love reading about success stories on here and I think they make me feel like less of a freak lol. So I wanted to post this just to say thank you to everybody on here for being honest about your sexual preferences and giving me a place to interact with other weirdos. Through reading what you've posted and chatting with/meeting some of you, I've figured out what I want and was able to finally find it. So THANKS!
It's possible everybody! Don't give up and good luck searching!
P.S. We will post some pictures of us soon, but he's got the worst ten day work week ever coming up so the photo shoot might not happen for a little while
I'm 25 years old now, but I have been in and out of these forums for years trying to understand this aspect of my sexuality and how I want it to manifest in real life. Over the past few years, I was looking pretty hard for attractive, fat men that wanted to meet me in person. I did meet a few from here, but nothing worked out for the long term. It depressed me a little because I realized that not only do I have a very small population to choose from, but within that population, I still had lots of requirements besides just physical attraction. And even once I found a good one, how would my friends and family react to me dating a guy 3 times my size? Being a smallish, sporty health professional didn't seem to fit with my sexual preferences. Everything seemed so difficult.
Since then, I've met the best guy ever. We first started chatting online last year around Thanksgiving while I was applying to graduate school. He lived literally on the opposite side of the country from me so it didn't start out too serious, but I knew I would be traveling around the country to interview at different schools so we might have a chance to meet. The most prestigious school that decided to give me an interview was actually only an hour away from where he lived and we chatted every day until I flew there in February. We spent an amazing week together and kept talking every day through texts and phone calls. Out of the 40 applications I sent out, the only program that accepted me was this school (my first choice school and the one closest to him coincidentally). So in July, I moved here.
It's only been 2 months, but I've never been so happy in a relationship before and I still can't believe these websites worked for me. He's not only the hottest guy I know, but the smartest, sweetest, and most fun guy I've ever dated and I'm so proud to be his girlfriend. I don't want to be too sappy, but I know I always love reading about success stories on here and I think they make me feel like less of a freak lol. So I wanted to post this just to say thank you to everybody on here for being honest about your sexual preferences and giving me a place to interact with other weirdos. Through reading what you've posted and chatting with/meeting some of you, I've figured out what I want and was able to finally find it. So THANKS!
It's possible everybody! Don't give up and good luck searching!
P.S. We will post some pictures of us soon, but he's got the worst ten day work week ever coming up so the photo shoot might not happen for a little while
