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Ladyrose1952
[FONT=Times New Roman, Times, Serif]To those of you are new to Size Acceptance, Fat Admirers are those with a decided preference for the extremely Voluptuous Female (BBWs) or Male (BHMs) form, generally referred to with great affection, as "FA's."
[FONT=Times New Roman, Times, Serif]My personal view is that ALL people who exhibit a preference for those of us with decidedly more meat on our bones are ABSOLUTELY WONDERFUL, and I thank Goodness that they indeed do exist.[/FONT]
[FONT=Times New Roman, Times, Serif]I do not understand Fat Women or Men who disdain FA's because they think they are"Only interested in them for their bodies!" For decades, many have been collectively complaining that no one wants them because they're Fat, and when they at last discover Admirers who think them lovely just the way and weight that they are, they criticize them for being shallow![/FONT]
[FONT=Times New Roman, Times, Serif]In any relationship, regardless of size, basic chemical and sexual attraction to some aspect of a person's appearance is going to be a factor. This does not mean it is the only reason a particular FA is attracted to you. Relationships obviously must also balance on emotional, spiritual, and intellectual levels.[/FONT]
[FONT=Times New Roman, Times, Serif]Nevertheless, I can tell you from experience that it is virtually impossible to have a fully satisfying relationship with a man or woman who has a preference for a physical type that varies drastically from your own. Getting involved with such a person will only make you and your partner miserable as you inevitably lose self-esteem day-by-day, knowing that you are not your lover's ideal. You may even (God forbid) try dieting, Gastric or Plastic surgery in your efforts to please your partner.[/FONT]
[FONT=Times New Roman, Times, Serif]Everyone has preferences. Some prefer blondes, some redheads, some brunettes. There are height and weight preferences, racial preferences, and even specific shape preferences (such as "hourglass shape," "pear shape," "apple shape," and/or "extremely buxom!").[/FONT]
[FONT=Times New Roman, Times, Serif]Personally, I am grateful for our diversity. What a boring world it would be if we all looked alike! [/FONT]
[FONT=Times New Roman, Times, Serif]"Of course, that's just my opinion. I could be wrong." [/FONT]
[FONT=Times New Roman, Times, Serif]So, to all of you FA's who-know-a-good-thing-when-they-see-it, I just wanted to let you know that this BBW totally appreciates you, and is thoroughly grateful for your existence.
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