So I've been reading a couple threads on the weight board tonight that seemed to go together but in an inverse way.
I've read, in essence:
"I want to be desired, but as a whole person, and not just a fat body."
"This guy says he loves SSBBWs so he should be true to that desire and only date SSBBWs, right?"
I see both perspectives as completely valid, and yet they can't coexist very easily. If someone only likes SSBBWs then what happens if the SSBBW loses weight? It's a bit of a pickle, and it can be difficult on both sides of the equation.
And when I say "it can be difficult on both sides of the equation" what I really mean to say is life is heart wrenchingly beautiful, unresolved, and right now.
I don't really know where I'm going with this post... but I'm interested to hear other peoples thoughts on the matter. also, it might be nice to weigh in with personal experience instead of abstract philosophical musing. feelings... that's where it's at!
I've read, in essence:
"I want to be desired, but as a whole person, and not just a fat body."
"This guy says he loves SSBBWs so he should be true to that desire and only date SSBBWs, right?"
I see both perspectives as completely valid, and yet they can't coexist very easily. If someone only likes SSBBWs then what happens if the SSBBW loses weight? It's a bit of a pickle, and it can be difficult on both sides of the equation.
And when I say "it can be difficult on both sides of the equation" what I really mean to say is life is heart wrenchingly beautiful, unresolved, and right now.
I don't really know where I'm going with this post... but I'm interested to hear other peoples thoughts on the matter. also, it might be nice to weigh in with personal experience instead of abstract philosophical musing. feelings... that's where it's at!
