Greetings Folks,
So....I hate taking vacation. Being over 500 pounds now at the age of 40, I've resigned myself to just be comfortable in my own home.
This presents some problems. I work a lot...sometimes 80 hours a week depending on the weather....I could use a vacation sometimes. But I'm always afraid of being a spectacle or being uncomfortable or inconveniencing others.
I used to be a traveler when I was in my 20's...I went to Europe twice and I was always going to the Jersey shore even if I was never a beach goer.
Another problem is my wife, who, although she is a BBW, she is still quite active and wants to experience more of aspects of life that I shy away from. She deserves a nice vacation. I have co-workers who are always going away to the Caribbean or other exotic locales. I wish I could do that for her. Our 10 year anniversary is coming up next May and I feel horrible about being such a downer on going away together.
So....I dont know exactly what I'm asking for here. Does anyone else have the travel fears that I do? Any tips on moving forward?
Thanks
Bill
So....I hate taking vacation. Being over 500 pounds now at the age of 40, I've resigned myself to just be comfortable in my own home.
This presents some problems. I work a lot...sometimes 80 hours a week depending on the weather....I could use a vacation sometimes. But I'm always afraid of being a spectacle or being uncomfortable or inconveniencing others.
I used to be a traveler when I was in my 20's...I went to Europe twice and I was always going to the Jersey shore even if I was never a beach goer.
Another problem is my wife, who, although she is a BBW, she is still quite active and wants to experience more of aspects of life that I shy away from. She deserves a nice vacation. I have co-workers who are always going away to the Caribbean or other exotic locales. I wish I could do that for her. Our 10 year anniversary is coming up next May and I feel horrible about being such a downer on going away together.
So....I dont know exactly what I'm asking for here. Does anyone else have the travel fears that I do? Any tips on moving forward?
Thanks
Bill
