looker2005
New Member
I was feeling lonely and after trolling this site I come across this on grouphug.us:
I'm a 29 year old virgin. I've only ever had one boyfriend in my life (I was 19 at the time), but he was an ass and cheated on me with his ex, so I dropped him like a bad habit. It's been 10 years now, and while I've kissed a fewother guys and fooled around a little, I've never actually had sex. I don't think any guy will ever want me as long as I'm fat. I've been obese most of my life. Guys don't like fat chicks. I have male freinds that I get crushes on, but I'm too afraid to tell them because I'm afraid of rejection. I'm afraid of wrecking perfectly fine friendships. I don't know how to let a man know I'm interested in more than friendship. I have such poor social skils that I can't even tell if a man is flirting with me or not.
I think only one of my friends knows the truth about me, but i know she'd never tell. With the rest of my friends, i just try to avoid the topic of sex altogether. I've lied to some and pretended like I lost it a while ago. I think I fake it pretty well.
I just can't understand why it's so easy for some girls to meet men and fall in "love". What's their secret? Why do men find me repulsive.I don't think I'm ugly. I know I'm no beauty queen, I'm just fat. I desperaterly want to fall in love with someone who loves me. I long to be in a releationship. It breaks my heart every time I see a couple holding hands, or hear about someone's new boyfriend. I'm so jealous.
I'm afraid of being alone and lonely for the rest of my life. I'm afraid of still being a virgin at 30.
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We need to tell these girls that we do like them for what they feel is a flaw. I need to come out of the closet. Maybe you do too. Set a date and fuck the consequences. We need to stop this horrible problem of virginity once and for all. Who's with me?
I'm a 29 year old virgin. I've only ever had one boyfriend in my life (I was 19 at the time), but he was an ass and cheated on me with his ex, so I dropped him like a bad habit. It's been 10 years now, and while I've kissed a fewother guys and fooled around a little, I've never actually had sex. I don't think any guy will ever want me as long as I'm fat. I've been obese most of my life. Guys don't like fat chicks. I have male freinds that I get crushes on, but I'm too afraid to tell them because I'm afraid of rejection. I'm afraid of wrecking perfectly fine friendships. I don't know how to let a man know I'm interested in more than friendship. I have such poor social skils that I can't even tell if a man is flirting with me or not.
I think only one of my friends knows the truth about me, but i know she'd never tell. With the rest of my friends, i just try to avoid the topic of sex altogether. I've lied to some and pretended like I lost it a while ago. I think I fake it pretty well.
I just can't understand why it's so easy for some girls to meet men and fall in "love". What's their secret? Why do men find me repulsive.I don't think I'm ugly. I know I'm no beauty queen, I'm just fat. I desperaterly want to fall in love with someone who loves me. I long to be in a releationship. It breaks my heart every time I see a couple holding hands, or hear about someone's new boyfriend. I'm so jealous.
I'm afraid of being alone and lonely for the rest of my life. I'm afraid of still being a virgin at 30.
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We need to tell these girls that we do like them for what they feel is a flaw. I need to come out of the closet. Maybe you do too. Set a date and fuck the consequences. We need to stop this horrible problem of virginity once and for all. Who's with me?
