nicolethefantastic
Well-Known Member
In the all-encompassing way; the top five things YOU find attractive in prospective partners. This is one of many things i find fascinating about humans; we are all so similar and yet we have these preferences within our own species which I suspect any other species *if they exist* would fail to see. And it's GREAT! Okay so here is my list, I guess it's only fair...
1. Intelligence- I know this is a broad term, but i guess what i mean is someone who really has their head screwed on the right way (hah) and who not only has the capacity to really consider things but uses it... Also emotional intelligence is important, being aware of how something may affect someone else... empathy...
2.Sense of humour- another broad term... i guess when i say this i mean someone who has a similar sense of humour to me (!!!) Someone who i can spar with, you know? Slightly off-centre, dry... humour.
3. Passion for life and open-minded.
4. Facial expressions- I am drawn to guys on a physical level mostly according to their own idiosyncratic facial expressions- how their eyes look when they smile, all the slight movements in the facial muscles which create that embarrassed face... so it really depends on the guy. there is never one particular "facial expression" i like because everyone has different variations on the same theme.... so it's hard to define, but I know it when i see it. haha
5. Reliable- some one who cares enough to know how important being reliable is.
I think that's the five MOST important to me... what are yours?
1. Intelligence- I know this is a broad term, but i guess what i mean is someone who really has their head screwed on the right way (hah) and who not only has the capacity to really consider things but uses it... Also emotional intelligence is important, being aware of how something may affect someone else... empathy...
2.Sense of humour- another broad term... i guess when i say this i mean someone who has a similar sense of humour to me (!!!) Someone who i can spar with, you know? Slightly off-centre, dry... humour.
3. Passion for life and open-minded.
4. Facial expressions- I am drawn to guys on a physical level mostly according to their own idiosyncratic facial expressions- how their eyes look when they smile, all the slight movements in the facial muscles which create that embarrassed face... so it really depends on the guy. there is never one particular "facial expression" i like because everyone has different variations on the same theme.... so it's hard to define, but I know it when i see it. haha
5. Reliable- some one who cares enough to know how important being reliable is.
I think that's the five MOST important to me... what are yours?
