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bellylover
Hello all,
A lot of things happened in my private life recently. I believe my wife suffers from Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD), a serious disorder which can sometimes make live a real hell for partners and families of BPD people. To cut a long story short, our marriage is in a serious crisis because some really unacceptable things she has done and continues to do with my family. We are still married, but I think mentally I have divorced her.
The story I want to tell is that this week-end I was walking in the city when my path crossed that of this beautiful big girl. I couldn't keep my eyes of of her. She had an unusual very big (= very beautiful) bottom and thighs (at least unusual big for the country I am living in), but quite a thin but very cute face. From the shopping in her trolley you could tell that she was single and I think lonely too. I imagine her on a dating website, plenty of men responding to her picture profile, having nice chats, maybe secretely falling in love, getting her hopes up that this might be *the* one, only to be brutally disappointed when her date tells her: "You have such a cute face, if only..." I can only imagine how many times she must have heard this.
I so much wanted to approach her and tell her that she is so cute and beautiful, but although in my mind I am single again, in real life I am not (yet?), so I didn't.
I think it would be awkward to approach someone in the supermarket and tell her you think she is really cute and because I am still married, I think it would be even more awkward, both for her and me. So I just enjoyed what I was seeing, went to the same check-out line as her and then our paths separated...
What do you think? Should I have told her? How would you feel if a total stranger approached you in the supermarket and told you he thinks you are very cute and beautiful?
I'm looking forward to your thoughts.
A lot of things happened in my private life recently. I believe my wife suffers from Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD), a serious disorder which can sometimes make live a real hell for partners and families of BPD people. To cut a long story short, our marriage is in a serious crisis because some really unacceptable things she has done and continues to do with my family. We are still married, but I think mentally I have divorced her.
The story I want to tell is that this week-end I was walking in the city when my path crossed that of this beautiful big girl. I couldn't keep my eyes of of her. She had an unusual very big (= very beautiful) bottom and thighs (at least unusual big for the country I am living in), but quite a thin but very cute face. From the shopping in her trolley you could tell that she was single and I think lonely too. I imagine her on a dating website, plenty of men responding to her picture profile, having nice chats, maybe secretely falling in love, getting her hopes up that this might be *the* one, only to be brutally disappointed when her date tells her: "You have such a cute face, if only..." I can only imagine how many times she must have heard this.
I so much wanted to approach her and tell her that she is so cute and beautiful, but although in my mind I am single again, in real life I am not (yet?), so I didn't.
I think it would be awkward to approach someone in the supermarket and tell her you think she is really cute and because I am still married, I think it would be even more awkward, both for her and me. So I just enjoyed what I was seeing, went to the same check-out line as her and then our paths separated...
What do you think? Should I have told her? How would you feel if a total stranger approached you in the supermarket and told you he thinks you are very cute and beautiful?
I'm looking forward to your thoughts.
