Alvinolagnia
Active Member
Hi all,
I'm an FFA who is madly in love with a BHM (although he wouldn't call himself that). Anyway, when I met him I would have just labeled him "chubby." I used to sometimes imagine him getting bigger, and whenever he would talk about losing weight I would secretly pray it wouldn't happen. Now, in recent months, he has put on somewhere between 25-30 lbs. You might think that my dreams were coming true... but now I find myself starting to worry about him. I love his body, but I want him to be healthy too. I guess what I mean is that when I first met him he looked healthy to me. Now he looks like overstuffed. It's strange, because there are other men on this board who are bigger than my boyfriend and they look healthier than he looks. Maybe it's just his body? Maybe the weight he was at before was his biggest "healthy" weight?
Sorry for the rambling... I just wanted to know if anyone out there has ever had to talk to their loved one about possibly needing to lose a few pounds to stay healthy, while still keeping their BHM (or BBW) form...
I love him! I love his body! I just want him to be healthy!!!
Any advice? Thanks
I'm an FFA who is madly in love with a BHM (although he wouldn't call himself that). Anyway, when I met him I would have just labeled him "chubby." I used to sometimes imagine him getting bigger, and whenever he would talk about losing weight I would secretly pray it wouldn't happen. Now, in recent months, he has put on somewhere between 25-30 lbs. You might think that my dreams were coming true... but now I find myself starting to worry about him. I love his body, but I want him to be healthy too. I guess what I mean is that when I first met him he looked healthy to me. Now he looks like overstuffed. It's strange, because there are other men on this board who are bigger than my boyfriend and they look healthier than he looks. Maybe it's just his body? Maybe the weight he was at before was his biggest "healthy" weight?
Sorry for the rambling... I just wanted to know if anyone out there has ever had to talk to their loved one about possibly needing to lose a few pounds to stay healthy, while still keeping their BHM (or BBW) form...
I love him! I love his body! I just want him to be healthy!!!
Any advice? Thanks
