it's only me
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as some of u may have read on one of posts, is i exercise a little not much just my 20-30 min daily walks, i've done it for yrs, as i've said i'm mostly between 217-230 but i have a small frame i'm only '5 3", but what i've never mentioned , my weight is mostly my large breast i'm a size 42I which makes me look larger than i really am & yes i do suffer from back pain(lol).
i usually would walk on my treadmill, but this summer i decided to start walking outside(which is the first time i've ever done that), also so i can give my 2 babies the exercise they need also(my dogs). i live on the out skirts of town which is mostly in the country, i have neighbors , there is a lot of traffic day & night.
i know most of the people that i live around(not that well), i don't socialize with them i like to keep to myself, but i will speak to them & wave if i see them out. like i've said i don't really know these people.(i've been living in this area for almost 9 yrs)
so getting to my story, someone called me this past tuesday, & told me that these people (my neighbors) has been talking about me & making fun if my body shape & size, when they see me walking everyday, now this person that told me this don't even live in my area she lives in another city, so in order for to know that i walked everyday someone had to have been talking & gossiping about me, i was in total shock i didn't think people this day & age could be so ignorant, stupid & petty, i like to walk for my health, but u would think they would understand, most of them are suffering from diabetes, heart disease,& so on u name it they've got it.
i finally told my husband about it today when he went walking with me & he wasn't too happy about it,,he just told me don't let these stupid people stop me from doing what i wanted to do & since i was walking for my health it was my business not theirs.
but i'm not gonna lie when i heard it, it really hurt my feelings , but i'm glad it didn't hurt them bad enough to make me wanna stop walking outside & stay inside & get back on my treadmill i got right back out there the same day.(lol) my take on it is, if u don't like what u see then turn your head.
i usually would walk on my treadmill, but this summer i decided to start walking outside(which is the first time i've ever done that), also so i can give my 2 babies the exercise they need also(my dogs). i live on the out skirts of town which is mostly in the country, i have neighbors , there is a lot of traffic day & night.
i know most of the people that i live around(not that well), i don't socialize with them i like to keep to myself, but i will speak to them & wave if i see them out. like i've said i don't really know these people.(i've been living in this area for almost 9 yrs)
so getting to my story, someone called me this past tuesday, & told me that these people (my neighbors) has been talking about me & making fun if my body shape & size, when they see me walking everyday, now this person that told me this don't even live in my area she lives in another city, so in order for to know that i walked everyday someone had to have been talking & gossiping about me, i was in total shock i didn't think people this day & age could be so ignorant, stupid & petty, i like to walk for my health, but u would think they would understand, most of them are suffering from diabetes, heart disease,& so on u name it they've got it.
i finally told my husband about it today when he went walking with me & he wasn't too happy about it,,he just told me don't let these stupid people stop me from doing what i wanted to do & since i was walking for my health it was my business not theirs.
but i'm not gonna lie when i heard it, it really hurt my feelings , but i'm glad it didn't hurt them bad enough to make me wanna stop walking outside & stay inside & get back on my treadmill i got right back out there the same day.(lol) my take on it is, if u don't like what u see then turn your head.
