I go to a community college outside of Cleveland. The other day I was talking to a couple of classmates while having a cigarette and somehow the subject of why guys like big women came up.
One of them is a relatively averaged sized white woman and the other was a very thin white woman. The thin one said it's usually because of low self esteem and the average sized one said she didn't really think that was the case. They went back and forth for a few minutes while I tried my best to keep my mouth shut.
At one point the skinny one revealed that she used to be fat (I didnt press her on how big she used to be but judging from her comments I'd guess not really that big) and I couldnt take it anymore. I asked her if she would be surprised to know that I loved (yes I used the word love) big women. She replied with "How could I not be? You're a decent looking well spoken guy, you can do so much better than fat chicks." The averaged sized chick was in shock and clearly was expecting me to blow up. It just so happened that I finished my cigarette right after she said this so after a few seconds of awkward silence I just smiled and told them both I'd see them next week in class.
After typing this I really don't have much of a point with this post, I just felt the need to let it out and didn't really feel like telling my girlfriend (I love her to death, I just don't think she would have had much to say about it).
Thoughts? Comments? Should I have checked her or did I do the right thing by just letting her marinate in her own ignorance and self-hatred?
One of them is a relatively averaged sized white woman and the other was a very thin white woman. The thin one said it's usually because of low self esteem and the average sized one said she didn't really think that was the case. They went back and forth for a few minutes while I tried my best to keep my mouth shut.
At one point the skinny one revealed that she used to be fat (I didnt press her on how big she used to be but judging from her comments I'd guess not really that big) and I couldnt take it anymore. I asked her if she would be surprised to know that I loved (yes I used the word love) big women. She replied with "How could I not be? You're a decent looking well spoken guy, you can do so much better than fat chicks." The averaged sized chick was in shock and clearly was expecting me to blow up. It just so happened that I finished my cigarette right after she said this so after a few seconds of awkward silence I just smiled and told them both I'd see them next week in class.
After typing this I really don't have much of a point with this post, I just felt the need to let it out and didn't really feel like telling my girlfriend (I love her to death, I just don't think she would have had much to say about it).
Thoughts? Comments? Should I have checked her or did I do the right thing by just letting her marinate in her own ignorance and self-hatred?
