Wow thats a lot of acronyms! haha This circumstance came up unintentionally in another thread and it made me curious.
My question is this: As big women do you feel you have a harder time finding big men? I know personally fat guys almost NEVER approach me. Even when I do approach them, I feel like they think the only reason I sought them out was because I'm fat too. I also think that thin/average guys are more willing to broaden their idea of the "ideal" body type and date a chubby women. To me it seems that some BHM like to date thin women to almost "prove" to their buddies that they don't have to "settle" because of their weight. I know that not ALL big men are into larger ladies and thats totally cool seeing as everyone has different preferences yada yada ya. It just seems to me that there are more thin FAs than BHM ones. I'm wondering if anyone else had noticed this or has any thoughts as to why?
These are ALL generalizations of course. Its just a phenomenon that I've observed in my twenty-something years of life. Am I completely off here?
I'm very interested to hear from all aspects of the FFA/BHM community, not just BBW FFAs (I just couldn't think of a better title).
My question is this: As big women do you feel you have a harder time finding big men? I know personally fat guys almost NEVER approach me. Even when I do approach them, I feel like they think the only reason I sought them out was because I'm fat too. I also think that thin/average guys are more willing to broaden their idea of the "ideal" body type and date a chubby women. To me it seems that some BHM like to date thin women to almost "prove" to their buddies that they don't have to "settle" because of their weight. I know that not ALL big men are into larger ladies and thats totally cool seeing as everyone has different preferences yada yada ya. It just seems to me that there are more thin FAs than BHM ones. I'm wondering if anyone else had noticed this or has any thoughts as to why?
These are ALL generalizations of course. Its just a phenomenon that I've observed in my twenty-something years of life. Am I completely off here?
I'm very interested to hear from all aspects of the FFA/BHM community, not just BBW FFAs (I just couldn't think of a better title).
