Fat Molly
hufflepuff hobbit
In my trawling of the internet and continual pursuit of truth, I ran across this website.
Upon it, I ran across this rather interesting notion that seemed to evoke FFA/gay FAness.
Sexual fantasies, whether thoughts or feelings, often arise as images of satisfaction when, because of other circumstances, we are feeling deprived, ineffectual, weary, unrecognized, or alone.
The experience of genital arousal points to a yearning for an intoxicating existential merger with an other to hide the unwanted reality of your own brokenness, so that you can experience the ecstasy of transcending the unknown or of seeing or feeling seen (common male fantasies) or of being filled (a common female fantasy).
Same-sex attraction fantasies can reverse these roles: a man can desire to be filled with the strength of a father (who in reality was weak, or absent, or cruel); a woman can desire to see, or be seen by, a mother (who in reality was cruel or neglectful or smothering).
The combinations can be almost infinite, and they all point to a certain lack of unconditional childhood recognition, guidance, or acceptance that resonates with a current lackthat is, deprivationof recognition, guidance, acceptance, resources, or time.
I wonder what you make of this from a spiritual or psychological standpoint, and also from the perspective of a person who has a vested interest in fat.
Is our collective desire to be fat or to watch others become fat something...well...that has to do with a certain 'filling'?
And what do you make of the 'lack of unconditional childhood recognition...' etc...would you say that your childhood could be described as such?
Detailed answers, please.
Upon it, I ran across this rather interesting notion that seemed to evoke FFA/gay FAness.
Sexual fantasies, whether thoughts or feelings, often arise as images of satisfaction when, because of other circumstances, we are feeling deprived, ineffectual, weary, unrecognized, or alone.
The experience of genital arousal points to a yearning for an intoxicating existential merger with an other to hide the unwanted reality of your own brokenness, so that you can experience the ecstasy of transcending the unknown or of seeing or feeling seen (common male fantasies) or of being filled (a common female fantasy).
Same-sex attraction fantasies can reverse these roles: a man can desire to be filled with the strength of a father (who in reality was weak, or absent, or cruel); a woman can desire to see, or be seen by, a mother (who in reality was cruel or neglectful or smothering).
The combinations can be almost infinite, and they all point to a certain lack of unconditional childhood recognition, guidance, or acceptance that resonates with a current lackthat is, deprivationof recognition, guidance, acceptance, resources, or time.
I wonder what you make of this from a spiritual or psychological standpoint, and also from the perspective of a person who has a vested interest in fat.
Is our collective desire to be fat or to watch others become fat something...well...that has to do with a certain 'filling'?
And what do you make of the 'lack of unconditional childhood recognition...' etc...would you say that your childhood could be described as such?
Detailed answers, please.
