Don't know if this has been discussed. Could you live in a messy or dirty house? A friend and I went to collect another friend at her house as we were going out for the night together. I was quite frankly shocked with the state of her house. There was rubbish all over the place, ie food wrappers on the floor in the loungeroom, dirty clothes dumped on the floor in her bedroom, Plates and bowls with old food on them in the kitchen. Just crap everywhere.
To make it worse the place reeked of cat urine and there was cat faeces on the carpet.
I was shocked that anybody could live like this. How is this possible? Is it judgemental to feel sickened by this? I do feel sickened by this, I can't help it.
I could not live like that, no way. How do you help a person to change this behaviour also?
What to do? Love the person can't handle the house.
Susannah
To make it worse the place reeked of cat urine and there was cat faeces on the carpet.
I was shocked that anybody could live like this. How is this possible? Is it judgemental to feel sickened by this? I do feel sickened by this, I can't help it. I could not live like that, no way. How do you help a person to change this behaviour also?
What to do? Love the person can't handle the house.
Susannah
