FatBarbieDoll
Well-Known Member
Hello. Sorry if this is in the wrong section, but it seemed to fit, so I thought it was OK. Proceed with caution when reading, as talk about anti-fatness and a potential anti-fat photo are below.
I was chatting with a guy with whom there was potential to be in a romantic relationship until, out of curiosity, I searched his name on social media and came across what I believe to be a very anti-fat photo/illustration.
Keep in mind drawing is a specialty of his. He basically said it didn't mean what I thought it did and I've been second-guessing myself since. I feel worried that I ruined a potentially good relationship due to my insecurities and accused him of doing something wrong when he did not.
Comment from him (and his name) I covered below illustration says (my wording may be off a bit), "It's a f*ck*ng shame I have to see this every time I open Instagram."
What do you think? To be fair, he has never said anything fatphobic to me directly.
I was chatting with a guy with whom there was potential to be in a romantic relationship until, out of curiosity, I searched his name on social media and came across what I believe to be a very anti-fat photo/illustration.
Keep in mind drawing is a specialty of his. He basically said it didn't mean what I thought it did and I've been second-guessing myself since. I feel worried that I ruined a potentially good relationship due to my insecurities and accused him of doing something wrong when he did not.
Comment from him (and his name) I covered below illustration says (my wording may be off a bit), "It's a f*ck*ng shame I have to see this every time I open Instagram."
What do you think? To be fair, he has never said anything fatphobic to me directly.
