How many of you live in a relationship where there‘s not only a big weight difference between you and your partner, but where there‘s also a huge difference in physical appearance, when one partner is lean/slim/skinny/athletic (BMI < 24) and the other one fat (BMI >= 35)?
I assume that from the point of view of the „normal“ partner, that such is your desire unless you want to gain weight yourself.
But how about the fat partner? Is the big weight difference and the subsequent difference in appearance an issue for you and if so, in what way? Do you wish your partner to be bigger - or maybe even smaller? If you‚re happy with your partner‘s body, what do you like about it? If you‘re unhappy, what do you dislike?
As far as my wife and myself are concerned, her BMI is currently 41.6 with an upward trend and mine is 22 (+- .5) There were times when the difference was even greater: her so-far BMI max was 46.6 while my lowest was 20.5 albeit not at the same time (unfortunately)
Of course, I am a happy camper! I am thin and athletic and my wife‘s fat. I like the way I am. We‘re the exact opposite of each other. I admire her capacity to rapidly gain not only weight, but fat mass in particular. I admire her appetite. I admire her natural elegance that is even enhanced by her fatness. I think that, in this forum, I don‘t have to go into further detail about how it feels like to admire your fat partner.
But how about my wife? She not only loves me the way I am, but she pretty much prefers me to be that way. Although she’s fat herself, she doesn’t like the appearance of fat men (no judgement, just a preference). My lean leg muscles arouse her sexually. She recently said, excited:“Wow, my thighs are at least twice as big as yours, mine are so soft and yours are so hard.„ She wouldn‘t want me to carry bulk and knows that my body is strong enough to withstand her weight if she lies on top of me, streched out. She‘s happy with my endurance training because she knows that I need it for my emotional and psychological well-being which positively feeds back into our relationship. She does other things for that purpose. In addition to that, my physcial activities ensure that I can eat pretty much the same amount of food as she does ;-) which is always a good thing in a relationship.
We both get a lot of satisfaction out of our bodily differences and openly talk about them. In a way, it has become part of our foreplay in bed (not fat talk, but body talk) At the moment, the weight difference that is currently a bit above 100 lbs is increasing steadily without ourselvesrushing it, in a playful way. In our relationship, the old saying that opposites attract each other, hits the nail on its head.
How about yourself?
I assume that from the point of view of the „normal“ partner, that such is your desire unless you want to gain weight yourself.
But how about the fat partner? Is the big weight difference and the subsequent difference in appearance an issue for you and if so, in what way? Do you wish your partner to be bigger - or maybe even smaller? If you‚re happy with your partner‘s body, what do you like about it? If you‘re unhappy, what do you dislike?
As far as my wife and myself are concerned, her BMI is currently 41.6 with an upward trend and mine is 22 (+- .5) There were times when the difference was even greater: her so-far BMI max was 46.6 while my lowest was 20.5 albeit not at the same time (unfortunately)
Of course, I am a happy camper! I am thin and athletic and my wife‘s fat. I like the way I am. We‘re the exact opposite of each other. I admire her capacity to rapidly gain not only weight, but fat mass in particular. I admire her appetite. I admire her natural elegance that is even enhanced by her fatness. I think that, in this forum, I don‘t have to go into further detail about how it feels like to admire your fat partner.
But how about my wife? She not only loves me the way I am, but she pretty much prefers me to be that way. Although she’s fat herself, she doesn’t like the appearance of fat men (no judgement, just a preference). My lean leg muscles arouse her sexually. She recently said, excited:“Wow, my thighs are at least twice as big as yours, mine are so soft and yours are so hard.„ She wouldn‘t want me to carry bulk and knows that my body is strong enough to withstand her weight if she lies on top of me, streched out. She‘s happy with my endurance training because she knows that I need it for my emotional and psychological well-being which positively feeds back into our relationship. She does other things for that purpose. In addition to that, my physcial activities ensure that I can eat pretty much the same amount of food as she does ;-) which is always a good thing in a relationship.
We both get a lot of satisfaction out of our bodily differences and openly talk about them. In a way, it has become part of our foreplay in bed (not fat talk, but body talk) At the moment, the weight difference that is currently a bit above 100 lbs is increasing steadily without ourselvesrushing it, in a playful way. In our relationship, the old saying that opposites attract each other, hits the nail on its head.
How about yourself?
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