OK, This might be a dumb question from a newbie but, Do BHM's and FFA's actually hook up from meeting in this this forum? I realize that geographical location can be a factor when it actually comes down to meeting in person but, I have spent a few overwhelming hours on this board and it seems to me like its more of an admiration or fetish to discuss. Don't get me wrong I love the fact that there are gorgeous gals on this board that love large men like myself, but where are the gals that want to actually chat with and meet us? From the male perspective, Its a nice little gift from the self esteem fairy when I read ladies' comments on how hot we are but, My problem is not self confidence. My problem is meeting the type of women that are attracted to me and are not afraid to admit it regardless of the fact that society in general has labled us as undesirables. For example, I can go to my local craigslist and type in BHM or FFA in the personals section and get zilch! I could easily post a list of the gals on this board that I am attracted to just by reading their posts and seeing their pics. If I met a lady on here after chatting for awhile and we were mutally attracted to each other physically and had a good rapport , I would'nt have a problem flying her down here to meet her. :eat2: