superodalisque
Well-Known Member
one issue i see a lot of discussion of is the separations between fat/beautiful. i was reading another thread and the op shared a fantastic link. in it a fairly well known fat community comedian said that some one told her she was just beautiful and she wondered why she couldn't be both fat and beautiful. a poster in the thread noted that she was beautiful and it was not necessary that she be a fetish to be beautiful. it does seem that the world would like to compartmentalize who fat people are. we are either fat or we are beautiful. we don't often see the sentiments put together in one place. like succinct Ms Wiley said " Why can't I be both?" do you feel there is a resistance both inside and outside of acceptance for fat people to be both? if there is a resistance why? if there isn't a resistance why not?
