Obviously as FFAs we are admirerers, we don't always end up dating BHMs - no one on here is shallow and we all know our preferences don't play in so much in the dating world when someone we really get along with comes along. (maybe I'm wrong and that's some of us?) - I wanted to ask how you other FFAs have delt with your preference for a tummy on your man while dating he non BHM variety- how do you let them know without fear of them being hurt or pressured? Have any of you gone through this situation? Thoughts would be appreciated- as I am currently in that situation myself.