Just wondering if others have experienced anything like this. I dated my first FFA over a couple months of the summer and things got off to a really intense start. Within a week we had professed love to each other and within two we were calling each other the loves of our lives, telling each other that we plan to spend the rest of our lives together.
But alas, most things that seem too good to be true are, and after only a couple months the relationship was over. I seem to have played the role of the clingy ex for awhile because of it, it's taken me a LOT longer than I would have expected to get over.
It makes me kind of fear getting involved with another FFA... might we mistake lust for love again? It seems like the sexual connection between a BHM and FFA is one to which neither party is already accustomed most of the time, and so it can be easy for things to get too serious too fast amidst the whirlwind of excitement over finally being able to be open about certain tendencies and preferences.
Has anyone else experienced this sort of thing before? An intense immediate attraction due to the BHM/FFA connection that leads to things getting too heavy too quickly and someone getting hurt because of it?
But alas, most things that seem too good to be true are, and after only a couple months the relationship was over. I seem to have played the role of the clingy ex for awhile because of it, it's taken me a LOT longer than I would have expected to get over.
It makes me kind of fear getting involved with another FFA... might we mistake lust for love again? It seems like the sexual connection between a BHM and FFA is one to which neither party is already accustomed most of the time, and so it can be easy for things to get too serious too fast amidst the whirlwind of excitement over finally being able to be open about certain tendencies and preferences.
Has anyone else experienced this sort of thing before? An intense immediate attraction due to the BHM/FFA connection that leads to things getting too heavy too quickly and someone getting hurt because of it?
