As a younger guy who is relatively inexperienced when it comes to making a women feel romantic, I don't have much control over the kind of person that I make a connection with. Currently, my girlfriend is what I would consider average weight, but of course she is on a constant mission to lose more. As a result, she is absolutely against indulging me in any of my weight related fantasies, and she won't even let me hold her belly. I have a (short) history of relationships with these kinds of people, and its starting to seem like I won't be able to ever connect with a girl that isn't repulsed by this stuff! I don't mean to be a downer, but I thought that maybe someone else with similar experiences had any words of wisdom about it.