Most here know I've started seeing an FA, who I did happen to really like. I know it was wrong of me but when I saw a link on his journal I decided to go on it because I was bored.
I came across a few posts of his and had a bit of a giggle at some of the things he'd said because they were slightly untrue and I read a few more till I came across a post on a turnoffs thread.
He said
Ironically when we went to a movie i had a hard time fitting in the seats. I just feel hurt an upset now. I know it comes across as stalkerish me reading some posts but I just wanted to get to know him a little better without reading stuff that he'd typed to me or when he knew I was reading (I do it quite often)
I'm really quite upset. I thought he was different but he's just as nasty as other people when it comes to big people. I'm nearly in tears. What should I do?
I came across a few posts of his and had a bit of a giggle at some of the things he'd said because they were slightly untrue and I read a few more till I came across a post on a turnoffs thread.
He said
I noticed nobody has listed fat people yet. Is this just people being afraid of being called shallow or would you seriously get it on with a big fatty? I think it's great if people are gonna be accepting of fat people, but you just don't see that many lardasses in hot sexual liasons do you? Personally, a girls weight doesn't bother me too much, but there's a limit. I want to go watch a movie with someone that actually fits in the seats y'know?
Ironically when we went to a movie i had a hard time fitting in the seats. I just feel hurt an upset now. I know it comes across as stalkerish me reading some posts but I just wanted to get to know him a little better without reading stuff that he'd typed to me or when he knew I was reading (I do it quite often)
I'm really quite upset. I thought he was different but he's just as nasty as other people when it comes to big people. I'm nearly in tears. What should I do?