snipermb435
Well-Known Member
I have been dating a lovely woman for years now, I love her for her and her body is a bonus that I happen to love also. But over the last year being at her biggest but not much bigger than when I met her, she has hated her body, (I know she doesn't come on here so I can post this) she weighs about 315 now, she is a pear shape with large hips/butt and double belly.
Now over this last year I've tried and tried to help her realize she's beautiful and sexy(not just her body but all of her) and nothing I say or do helps, she knows I'm attracted to her at this size or at any size as I have told her on many occasions. She doesn't except her body and has said she hates it, mainly her tummy and arms, things I like, well I love all of her, but I digress.
She says she hates her body because she doesn't feel comfortable in it but I know society plays a huge role and that also has to do with it. Now because she hates her body, when I attempt to be intimate or just loving and touch these area's or any area really she pushes me away and im shut down. and as you can probably tell the other hasn't happened in a while because of this. I respect her and her body, but I know if she cant love herself at this size a smaller size wont matter either.
can anyone help me?
Now over this last year I've tried and tried to help her realize she's beautiful and sexy(not just her body but all of her) and nothing I say or do helps, she knows I'm attracted to her at this size or at any size as I have told her on many occasions. She doesn't except her body and has said she hates it, mainly her tummy and arms, things I like, well I love all of her, but I digress.
She says she hates her body because she doesn't feel comfortable in it but I know society plays a huge role and that also has to do with it. Now because she hates her body, when I attempt to be intimate or just loving and touch these area's or any area really she pushes me away and im shut down. and as you can probably tell the other hasn't happened in a while because of this. I respect her and her body, but I know if she cant love herself at this size a smaller size wont matter either.
can anyone help me?
