Hey all, I'm back! The woman I joined up with and I have split up, some time ago, and my life has been re-set at square number one - but I'm ready to be a movin on!
I've met this awesome + size lady, but she can't quite get that I like + size women, and I don't know how to broach it - that I like the way she is and don't want her to have to slim down. I am slim, pregnant, but still fit my normal size clothin. I don't know what size translates ha, I'm a Kiwi 12, about 60kg (see?! tiny!) and it's always come between me and my partners. I'd love to be big, but I just can't do it, lol, I'm too active, have a great metabolism and can't afford new clothes
But it's always there, at parties and things, they feel like I'm ashamed of them or something. And I really hate the way some women are so conscious of their naked bodies - I love their bodies! But they always think I'm saying that just to be nice or sommat, sigh. So what I want your advice on is:
- How to attract big, beautiful women without them thinking I'm just a twig who wants to feel good about herself!
- How to find a woman/learn to recognise when she's comfortable about her body and her weight
- How to deal with all the trickiness I'm in now, like getting them to realise that I like them they way they are, and I'm not skinny just to spite them!
- How to broach the next bit, where we bring food into the bedroom... How the hell do you tell someone you like watching them eat?! Ahh!
And hi again
PS
For those who don't know, yes, I am gay.
I've met this awesome + size lady, but she can't quite get that I like + size women, and I don't know how to broach it - that I like the way she is and don't want her to have to slim down. I am slim, pregnant, but still fit my normal size clothin. I don't know what size translates ha, I'm a Kiwi 12, about 60kg (see?! tiny!) and it's always come between me and my partners. I'd love to be big, but I just can't do it, lol, I'm too active, have a great metabolism and can't afford new clothes
But it's always there, at parties and things, they feel like I'm ashamed of them or something. And I really hate the way some women are so conscious of their naked bodies - I love their bodies! But they always think I'm saying that just to be nice or sommat, sigh. So what I want your advice on is:- How to attract big, beautiful women without them thinking I'm just a twig who wants to feel good about herself!
- How to find a woman/learn to recognise when she's comfortable about her body and her weight
- How to deal with all the trickiness I'm in now, like getting them to realise that I like them they way they are, and I'm not skinny just to spite them!
- How to broach the next bit, where we bring food into the bedroom... How the hell do you tell someone you like watching them eat?! Ahh!
And hi again
PS
For those who don't know, yes, I am gay.
